To Crush or Not to crush?
Yee Lyn was asking me.. would i be happier crushing on someone or not having someone to crush at all..
My answer?? = YES! surprisingly..
"It is better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved before.."
True la.. liking someone can be very "sam foo" especially if you don't get the ending you were hoping for.. look from it from another angle.. wouldn't that love for a person give you a sorta blissful feeling that makes you wanna soar into the sky...? errmm occasionally la.. sky tak ada traffic patrol..
Take me for example.. remembering my very 1st crush.. how i would blush when he was around.. how i would sneak looks at him when I think he isn't looking (wich of course means he p'bly is..) how I would smile ear to ear ALL DAY like that irritatating cat in Alice in wonderland.. wat is it chestrie cat is it.. after talking to him for like 5 minutes.. ok.. very stupid.. but hey I was young.. but come to think of it.. unintentionally.. I actually had a blast.. =)
Another thumbs up= at the end of it.. you guys move on and everybody can still stay friends.. as oppose to a bad break up where it concludes with.. "Shit LA.. that fugly jerk.. shouldn't have dated him!.. waste time only.. sigh".. summore you mite tend to drift from some frens to avoid.. uh hum.. any 'awkardness' with ur ex..
People!! there is a reason it is called a CRUSH! It will hurt! (in most cases) But then again which relationship doesn't.. believe it or not.. with the maybe heart wrenching experience.. comes growth and experience..
to gain love.. we have to start loving first..
Piece of advice.. go out there, LOVE and get crushed.. at least at the end you can say.. "Hey.. no regrets!"
My answer?? = YES! surprisingly..
"It is better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved before.."
True la.. liking someone can be very "sam foo" especially if you don't get the ending you were hoping for.. look from it from another angle.. wouldn't that love for a person give you a sorta blissful feeling that makes you wanna soar into the sky...? errmm occasionally la.. sky tak ada traffic patrol..
Take me for example.. remembering my very 1st crush.. how i would blush when he was around.. how i would sneak looks at him when I think he isn't looking (wich of course means he p'bly is..) how I would smile ear to ear ALL DAY like that irritatating cat in Alice in wonderland.. wat is it chestrie cat is it.. after talking to him for like 5 minutes.. ok.. very stupid.. but hey I was young.. but come to think of it.. unintentionally.. I actually had a blast.. =)
Another thumbs up= at the end of it.. you guys move on and everybody can still stay friends.. as oppose to a bad break up where it concludes with.. "Shit LA.. that fugly jerk.. shouldn't have dated him!.. waste time only.. sigh".. summore you mite tend to drift from some frens to avoid.. uh hum.. any 'awkardness' with ur ex..
People!! there is a reason it is called a CRUSH! It will hurt! (in most cases) But then again which relationship doesn't.. believe it or not.. with the maybe heart wrenching experience.. comes growth and experience..
to gain love.. we have to start loving first..
Piece of advice.. go out there, LOVE and get crushed.. at least at the end you can say.. "Hey.. no regrets!"
posted by LoRiS at
11:59 AM
7 Comments:
the bad break up thing is not that bad.. all the swear words and shit that you've been dying to tell him/her in his/her face finally gets to see the light of day..
it is certainly a moment of peaceful clarity for my soul.. hahaha.. no.. i'm serious.. =)
haha.. but relationships have the tendency to end up in a hate- hate situation as opposed to crushes..
hmm.. i guess swearing caN make you feel better.. but still ur disatisfaction towards her wouldn't lessen right?
of course it's better to crush. hehe. and yeah, go out there and love..
damn, i miss crushing on someone.
having crushes can be painful sometimes. When u hope for something, it does not happen. When u hope nothing to happen, it happens. MAHAI. i hate the way love or crushes work.
haha.. e lin.. yea.. we shud! not u la.. got bf liao.. lee yee!.. haha.. ya.. dunno y no guys this year.. haha.. mebbe we r juz expecting too much.. =)
me shel.. yea.. its hard that way.. all in the hands of fate.. its either they like us we dun like em or vice versa.. or the wrong time.. sighs..
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