Forever love..?
Forever love? True or false? Hmm.. we all wonder.. is there such a thing as "true love"? And most importantly.. how would we know when we find it.. i mean IS there a scientific discovery to prove this?.. sadly.. NOpe!
Haha.. the funny thingg is.. me and lee yee were just saying that day.. do we actually believe such a thing? this fragile thing we call love that we can't touch or hold? that can slip away in the blink of an eye? can we actually find that one person we would want to spend the rest of our lives with? would we.. haha.. wud we actually "GO BALLISTIC" at the last possible moment n become "fugitives" of our own weddings?
........ IS THERE REALLY SUCH THING? ........
Like most questions?.. there IS no answer.. well.. there is an answer but no definate answer.. Hmm.. mebbe there is no such thing as true love.. but as we noe.. ppl are often all in denial.. so we choose to believe that watever we are experiencing at the moment is LOVE.. then when this new guy comes along.. we would be like no no.. this NEW dude is my, now HE is my "SOULMATE".. at this speed.. we can have like a GEJILLION soulmates b4 we hit 40.. wow.. thats a whole lot.. haha.. mebbe u can even form a football team and call it.. "Ashley's" (or watever your name is) Soulmates.. heck.. u mite even be able to form 2 teams and have them fight it out.. heheh..
My perception of love?
is.. 1st comes lust.. 2nd comes love?.. 3rd comes Habit.. and lastly Responsiblity.. mind you.. with each level.. the one b4 disappears.. at least thats what i think.. am i wrong to think this way? i seriously dun noe.. but how is it we can depend our whole lives on this "LOVE"? would we wake up one day and finally know what it is? I for one.. seriously doubt it..
What do u tink? =p
Haha.. the funny thingg is.. me and lee yee were just saying that day.. do we actually believe such a thing? this fragile thing we call love that we can't touch or hold? that can slip away in the blink of an eye? can we actually find that one person we would want to spend the rest of our lives with? would we.. haha.. wud we actually "GO BALLISTIC" at the last possible moment n become "fugitives" of our own weddings?
........ IS THERE REALLY SUCH THING? ........
Like most questions?.. there IS no answer.. well.. there is an answer but no definate answer.. Hmm.. mebbe there is no such thing as true love.. but as we noe.. ppl are often all in denial.. so we choose to believe that watever we are experiencing at the moment is LOVE.. then when this new guy comes along.. we would be like no no.. this NEW dude is my, now HE is my "SOULMATE".. at this speed.. we can have like a GEJILLION soulmates b4 we hit 40.. wow.. thats a whole lot.. haha.. mebbe u can even form a football team and call it.. "Ashley's" (or watever your name is) Soulmates.. heck.. u mite even be able to form 2 teams and have them fight it out.. heheh..
My perception of love?
is.. 1st comes lust.. 2nd comes love?.. 3rd comes Habit.. and lastly Responsiblity.. mind you.. with each level.. the one b4 disappears.. at least thats what i think.. am i wrong to think this way? i seriously dun noe.. but how is it we can depend our whole lives on this "LOVE"? would we wake up one day and finally know what it is? I for one.. seriously doubt it..
What do u tink? =p
posted by LoRiS at
9:07 PM
17 Comments:
haha loris' love perception!
haha.. yes yes..wat u think? hmm.. not true ah? =)
hmmm.. it'a topic we talk bout all the time.. hmmm.. i do believe in love. ok, maybe not forever love, but then when we feel the "love" feeling, it felt like we're certain it would last forever. i guess it's just how we want to perceive it AT THAT PARTICULAR time. that's what i think. i guess i'm one of those girls who believe that love would really last. in a binding marriage, he's the one we depend on when we're down. so, guys would really make themselves sound bad and actually prove me wrong when they go cheat.. IF.. (I seriously hope they don/t.. )
I think we will be runaway brides....
my view on this is to leave the thinking and pondering.. embrace the feeling when it comes.. live for the moment in it's ecstacy.. and break, tear and cry in it's despair..
my current view on love, life and anything else: live for the moment.. hehe
warhhh u think so much one ar? ahahhaha- Yi
haha.. u r so rite.. come la.. we plan our weddings on the same day then lari together.. haha.. jk! =P
u n me both lyn.. but toot happens.. haha.. but i agree with goh.. lets live people! we dunno wat tommorow brings us so lets just live.. love and appreciate startin rite now! =)
Hey loris. U know wat. Everyone has their own perception of love. Some might believe in love and some dont. I sure do believe. Sometimes when u meet the right person u will have the right feeling. Sometimes these feeling just tells u that she is the one. BUt maybe as time pass, as u get to know the person more. Perception might change, u would never know. Love is something fragile. Sometimes its there sometimes it not. And sometimes u just gotta work for it. To keep love strong and alive. And i do believe in ur theory of love is first lust, the something something and responsibility. I think its because at a young tender age, u wont have a lot of responsiblility to hold. BUt that doesnt mean there arent any. Just not as many. And about the lust thing. Young people are just horny la k. Hehehhe. Anyway, How u preceive love as. Just make sure u keep those who u love close to u.
hi there loris! guess who? wahaha. you've super grown up man. it's been nice reading your bloggie! take care girl!
liked the way ur definition of love is. Seldom hear people define love tat way.
Melvin.. i do believe in love.. just not forever love.. wat do u mean by u just noe? maybe i haven met "the one" yet.. but dun u tink with every gf u have had, u felt that she was the one.. at least at the moment.. i mean dun u agree that ones perception of the love of their life can change? its just that at the end we make a decision..i.e marraige and with it comes responsibility.. haha..
p/s: DONKEE! lust in this sense means attraction.. =P
AWW!! Yuan! haha.. OMG.. how r ya?! i haven seen u in years.. and to imagine we see each other practically every single day 10years ago running around like mad lil monkeys in Bayshore!! haha.. i'm glad u liked my blog.. i enjoyed ur blog too.. reminds me a lot of u! hugs!
thks Ivan.. glad u liked it.. =)
hahaha! this is such an interesting read!
haha.. thks TAMMIE CHAN! aligato! =)
Hey loris. Yeah i guess u cant really know if its true love or not just by feeling. Understanding between the couples are important. ANd yes ur feeling of true love on someone may change. Maybe u found some things that u dont like about them or he or she did something stupid. but sometimes when u just know she is the right one and u wanna live with her knowing she will be there by ur side through thick and thin. Sometimes u see couples that fight really often. It doesnt mean couples dont fight. Sometimes its just the understanding. Thats where broken homes come from. Arguing couples. Sometimes understanding and reasoning whether who is right need some time to think. But when u really love someone, u wouldnt matter who wins the fight or who lost. When u meet the right one, he or she will understands u the most. I think i got too carried away. Hehehe. But it all makes sense right.
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